The #1 Mistake Singles Make in Choosing a Partner

Dating with wisdom starts when your list becomes a mirror. In this episode, we talk candidly about why so many singles overvalue looks and chemistry—only to feel blindsided after the wedding when character gaps show up at full volume. Attraction matters, but it won’t hold a marriage together. So what does? Shared faith, proven integrity, and the humble skills that build peace in conflict. We break down five practical filters for choosing well: 1️⃣ Spiritual alignment rooted in a real walk with God 2️⃣ Character you can verify, not just imagine 3️⃣ Healthy conflict patterns that don’t turn doors into drums 4️⃣ Inviting wise counsel into your relationship 5️⃣ Letting time reveal truth instead of rushing ahead Along the way, we challenge narrow “types,” cultural boxes, and expectations that can blind you to a great match. Preference isn’t a problem—until it becomes a prison. If you’ve ever felt stuck between pressure to settle down or fear of opening up, we lay out the healthy middle: content in God, open to love, and clear on standards. You’ll also hear why breakups can be protection, not failure, plus four powerful self-check questions to ask before saying yes. And we elevate the single season as sacred—an unmatched window to pursue purpose, deepen your prayer life, serve boldly, and become the kind of person your future spouse will thank you for. Whether you’re building a new list or revising an old one, this conversation will help you choose a partner you can stay in love with through the highs, the lows, and everything in between. Super Sunday Giving: www.myalivechurch.org/give - Ask us questions/Share your testimony: info@kenandtabatha.com Alive Conference tickets: https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/1875 DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️ https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888 Get the "Living at a 9" 60 Day Devotional today: https://checkout.square.site/merchant/3VXKDQV1HQXCG/checkout/QF32UAFP4AZYLIRNJUEGAXIZ GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: https://www.kenandtabatha.com